okay so i have never been the skinniest person on this earth. I have a butt and I have hips and I love to eat. but something i have learned over the past years is that everyone’s body is different, and numbers on a scale do not mean a thing. living in a sorority house, someone is constantly dieting or going to work out or feeling bad because they didn’t work out and then ate too much crap. Being around this and hearing it constantly can bring you down if you let it. But then again we all know when our weight is actually a problem or when we are just obsessed with a number on a scale or with looking a certain way.
Your weight or your image shouldn’t let you feel proclaimed beautiful or not. No I don’t mean that its bad to dress up or spend that little extra effort working out, but don’t let whether you look cute everyday or feel perfect everyday make you feel any less beautiful. You are beautiful in the Lord’s eyes no matter what. And truly what does looking gorgeous matter if you can’t be a friend to someone or talking to you is like talking to a brick wall?
Work out because you want to be healthier for your own well-being. Eat well because you want to treat your body right. Dress cute because you like to.
Physical beauty fades. (Proverbs 31:30) ”Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord is to be Praised.”
What is beautiful is only a scheme to make us become more Earthly. (1 Peter 3:3-4)
Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
I am not writing this to preach at anyone. I just want everyone to feel as beautiful as I truly believe they are, no matter what they look like. I have some beautiful people in my life. People who care, they encourage, they smile, they laugh, they are filled with JOY. They shine the Lord’s light and they look like he does, which is more beautiful than anything in this world.